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Now the porn addicts are dumping on us?!?!?

August 31st, 2010 0 Comments

Seriously? Does she look old to you?!? Not to me she doesn't!!!

It’s bad enough that Sarah Palin, John Boehner, Sharron Angle and the Tea-Bagger Movement dumps on us for being out of work…

…but when you have loser porn addicts beginning to dump on one of us because of their propaganda, that’s when one of us has to speak out and call them out on it.

Fortunately, you have me to take care of that.

While cruising the net I came across an article at LukeFord.com that referenced another article at Luke is Back about a porn star who had recently made a comeback at the age of 34, and how she was being treated by the industry. The porn star is question is named Raylene. She has had some positive experiences, but the gist of the article was how some in the industry were treating her badly because of her age. The article took a commenter to task for his attitudes that basically states that in porn a woman peaks in her early 20′s and then it is all downhill from there. Now some of us have run into age discrimination while trying to get work in this new economic reality, and it appears that the porn industry is no different…at least in some circles. There are some studios or websites out there who have made older women their niche and are doing just fine thank you very much.

But what really made me see red were a couple of comments that were made about Raylene’s husband reguarding his employment status. These are a couple of comments made by tonystar000:

Now as far as why u came back, unfortunately it sounds like your new husband is a suitcase pimp..”expanding our sexual experiences”..as why you came back…. umm you can have other sex partners other then your husband and not do porn!!! what kind of husband marries a real estate agent and then is fine with making money off her getting fucked on film for money?..Big difference if you were both in the industry or you were active when you met… but you were selling real estate and now he is basically pimping you out… tell him to support his f-ing family.. if your self esteem is this fragile this is not the right line of work for you….

My advise, tell your husband to get off his ass and support his family…

guess her scumbag of a husband wants to keep her ass for himself…HOW ABOUT YOU GET A JOB AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR WIFE SCUMBAG… SO SHE WOULDN’T HAVE TO GO THROUGH ALL THIS CRAP!!!

Then there was a comment made by Darrah, who operates his own porn blog:

She came back to financially support herself, her baby, and her current husband who can’t seem to find a job to support his family without having his wife come back to this industry. Unless he’s disabled in some way and can’t physically work, then he should be ashamed of himself that his wife had to come back to this industry to feed her baby because he couldn’t.

I had to respond to these two losers in the only way that I know how:

Tonystar000 – you need to stop talking out of your ass because you are making a fool out of yourself.

First of all, your statement that Raylene’s husband needs to “get off his ass and support his family” is not just insulting to Raylene’s family – but it is an insult to every unemployed person in this country.

The same goes for you Darrah – how the fuck do either one of you know if her husband is one of those “lazy deadbeats” that the Tea-Party keeps talking about? How do you know that he is “spoiled” like Sharron Angle says? The answer is that you don’t. You have no idea what their circumstances are so you just assume the worst because that enables you two to talk some smack about her and her husband. Keep in mind that the economy is still in the crapper and that the businesses that are supposed to be “creating jobs” like the Republicans keep telling us, are instead cutting jobs so that more profits can be used to send the executive board on “retreats” to some luxury resort somewhere. The problem isn’t that we unemployed are unable to find jobs. We are able to find the jobs just fine – the problem is that no one want to hire us for a variety of excuses like we are overqualified, underqualified, have been out of work too long, our credit score isn’t good enough or simply because we are unemployed to begin with.

Besides, when was the last time either one of you actually went out and looked for a job yourselves? You think that it’s easy?!? In this economy?!?!?!?!?! Seriously, if you two losers think that it is that easy to go out and get a part-time (8 hrs. per week) minimum-wage job flipping burgers at McDonalds or stocking shelves at Wal-Mart, then you need to do the following:

1) take your hands off of your dicks
2) turn off the porn
3) put your pants on
4) get out of your moms basement
5) shower
6) get on your skateboard or bike or borrow your dad’s car and go out and start applying for the jobs that you think are so easy to get
7) wait by the phone
wait some more
9) wait one more week to hear back from the places you applied to
10) repeat

tonystar000, you have no idea if Raylene’s husband doesn’t want to work and you have no idea what their situation is, so don’t assume anything. And Darrah – in searching for Raylene on your website all I found was her listing on the top 100 Porn Stars and no mention on her family’s situation. Do you know for a fact that her husband is out of work, or are you just going off of what tonystar000 said?

You said “She came back to financially support herself, her baby, and her current husband who can’t seem to find a job to support his family without having his wife come back to this industry. Unless he’s disabled in some way and can’t physically work, then he should be ashamed of himself that his wife had to come back to this industry to feed her baby because he couldn’t.” That tells me that you have no appreciation of how difficult it is to secure work in this new reality that is the Great Reccession. That tells me that you assume that it is so easy that a trained monkey could get a job. What, is that like it is “so easy a caveman can do it”?

That my friend is a bullshit assumption about the unemployed that a lot of people make about us. You, like the talking heads on FOX, Sarah Palin and the Tea Party just assume that we don’t want to work, and you think that by insulting us you make yourselves morally superior to us. Trust me my friend, the last thing we consider you to be would be superior to us. You have no idea what any of us are going through.

Take my story for example. I was laid off from my last “steady job” 7 ½ years ago. I had found a commission-based outside sales job 5 ½ years ago, but in talking to some hard-asses they tell me that it wasn’t a “real job” because I would only get paid when I sold something. When the economy started to go south in Idaho where I was living at the time, the job went with it and I have been trying to get work for the past 3 ½ years. In total I have contacted 1,085 companies and small businesses, some of them multiple times, trying to get work. I have gone on only 52 interviews, and I have never been extended a job offer by any of them. Does that still make me “lazy”?

Because my last job classified me as an “independent contractor” I was not eligible for Unemployment Benefits. The benefits from my last “real job” ran out a long time ago before all of the federal extensions came into play, so I have not received a dime of unemployment insurance since September 2003. Does that still make me “spoiled”?

Moral of this story my friend: make no assumptions about the unemployed because you never know who will take offense and call you out on it.

As for you tonystar000, your statement that a woman peaks in her early 20’s was pretty much debunked by Luke Ford, but I’m going to put my two pennies in. Luke went over to the Fame Registry for his data, so I went over to Brazzers to have a look at their top 25 and see what their ages were:

Rachel Roxxx (27)
Nikki Benz (29)
Lisa Ann (38)
Monique Alexander (28)
Julia Ann (40)
Lezley Zen (36)
Sienna West (32)
Shyla Stylez (27)
Gina Lynn (36)
Diamond Foxxx (37)
Savannah Stern (24)
Holly Sampson (36)
Abby Rode (31)
Dyanna Lauren (45)
Abbey Brooks (27)
Carmella Bing (28)
Audrey Bitoni (24)
Phoenix Marie (28)
Priya Anjeli Rai (32)
Kylee Strutt (23)
Memphis Monroe (25)
Gianna Michaels (27)
Jessica Jaymes (31)
Rachel Starr (26)
Jayden Jaymes (24)

So just by looking at this list, your assertion that “men prefer to jack off to girls that are 18-24” has been flushed down the toilet. Out of those Top 25 women listed on Brazzers only four of them are under the age of 25. So if you break it down by percentages the top 25 looks like this:

Under 25: 16%
25-30: 40%
31-35: 16%
36 and older: 28%

So it seems that the great majority of the women that men seem to fantasizing about by and large are over the age of 25. Now if your preference for women to jack off to only extends to those females under the age of 25 then that’s fine.

Just don’t presume to speak for the rest of us.

Now like I said in my response, how do these guys know what the situation is in Raylene’s household? How do they know that her husband is out of work and isn’t even trying to get another job? Answer: they don’t!!! They’re just assuming that he is one of the “lazy deadbeats” that the Far-Right keeps talking about. It wouldn’t surprise me if tonystar000 and Darrah happen to be tea-baggers themselves. Now I do not know for a fact that they are as I am just going off of what I see them writing on a porn blog. If anything I am trying to make a point about how unfair it is to assume the worst about somebody when you have very little information to go on.

Now as to Raylene’s husband: if he is out of work right now then let me say that I am sorry and that I wish him luck in finding a new job somewhere. If he is not out of work right now then both tonystar000 and Darrah owe him and Raylene an apology. Right now it is bad enough that they are making an assumption about one person who might be unemployed. But if they think that about one of us, is that what they think about all of us? Are they just assuming that all of us who are out of work right now actually don’t want to go back to work? Are they assuming that we are all just sitting around waiting for our government cheese to arrive in the mail?

If that is the case then both tonystar000 and Darrah owe each and every one of us an apology.

Personally I won’t hold my breath waiting for it, because if I have learned anything about these jack-asses is that they are never sorry for anything.

Well boys, I will not be sorry for thinking the worst about you either.

Until next time…

So, it looks like the joke’s on me…

August 12th, 2010 0 Comments

When I logged onto the internet today, this was what I found at MSN.com via the chive:

So it looks as if the entire “girl quits job with dry erase board” tale was a hoax after all. It has now come out that the hoax was perpetrated by thechive.com with the help of an aspiring actress by the name of Elyse Porterfield. This was all done in the same vein as the “Trump Tip Hoax” and the “Teen Texting Disaster Hoax”. Now that I know that this wasn’t really real and that the joke is on me as well as other news outlets I just have to say…

Bravo Gentlemen, well played!!! You got me…

Am I dissapointed that this story wasn’t real? Yeah, a little bit. I mean you have to admit that it would have been a great way to get back at a bad boss, and she was quickly becoming a folk heroine on the Internet. “Jenny” and “Jet Blue guy” were symbols of a workforce that was mad as hell, and they were not going to take it anymore, and they had a lot of supporters who were cheering them on – myself included. Even though “Jenny” is really Elyse and the whole incident never happened it still brought a smile to my face, and I have to thank Elyse and the gang at thechive for that. It turns out that Elyse is on Facebook as well as her own Twitter account where she has 2,395 followers so far. In case you are interested and want to follow her Tweets or “friend” her, feel free.

Now there are those of you out there who might be extremely pissed right now thinking that you have been made a fool of and that you have been embarrassed. The only way you feel like that is if you allow yourself to feel like that and are unable to laugh at yourself and the situation. In the realm of pranks this one was harmless and no dry erase boards were harmed in the production of this prank. Granted, it was a good one, and the webmasters over at thechive deserve a beer for this one – or as they put it a bottle of Jim Beam on us.

That being said, I stand by the assertion that I made the other day about this being a sign for how fed up American employees are becoming with their bad bosses. If you will recall what I wrote:

Now there is some speculation that this was all a hoax and that this never really happened. Well it doesn’t matter if this is real or not, if anything it is another indication of just how fed up the American employee is becoming with the people who write their paychecks. This is another example of how bad the attitudes of American employers has become. They have so much power now due to the fact that the economy is bad and people are scared for their jobs that some of these bosses have decided to abuse that power. I’ve got some news for those bosses: what goes around comes around. If you keep treating your employees like shit, then shit is going to come back to you ten-fold. If your bosses figure out that employee morale is down and productivity is down right along with it, they may decide that your employees are not the problem but that you are the problem! If that’s the case, then expect to have security taze your ass before they toss you down the stairs.

I wrote that and I will stand by it until the day that I go the way of all flesh.

I know that this whole thing wasn’t real, but to me it doesn’t matter because somewhere out there there is a real life “Jenny” who is just as fed up with her asshole of a boss as the “false Jenny” was with “Spencer”. You don’t believe me? Then look at the “Jet Blue Guy” and tell me that American employees have not had it up to here with all of the crap that they have to endure. If it isn’t their bosses treating them like shit, then it is the customers who treat them like shit andthen threaten them with the loss of their jobs if they do not give them exactly what they want on the spot and clean their assholes with their tongues as a bonus. Look we have all had experiences with bad bosses and bad customers, it sucks and it is not right that we should have to give up our dignity just so that we can have a roof over our heads and food for our children. There are a lot of people out there who are working right now who have been forced to give up their self-respect for a paycheck, and it is not right that they are being raped on both sides of the equation.

Things are tough all over for the ones like us who have been shoved out of the employment door and then blacklisted, as well as those who were left behind and are afraid of being blacklisted. But increasingly that fear is becoming anger, anger will soon become hatred and that hatred might lead to suffering for a lot of innocent people caught in the crossfire. Yeah I know I’ve just quoted Yoda, but look George Lucas was onto something when he wrote that line – maybe because it’s true. You don’t believe me? Then look at the Tea Party. They were scared by lies from FOX News and the Health Insurance companies, those lies made them angry enough to lash out at Town Hall meetings, and they have expressed hatred for President Obama and everyone who sides with him.

How long will it be before they cause suffering by shooting people that they have hatred for, and how long will it be before those people start shooting back?

Look I’m not saying that those employees who have been abused should turn to “2nd Amendment Methods” in order to get some payback – no one wants to see that happen, especially me. But everyone needs to get it through their heads that American workers are getting fed up with being treated like they are the Chess Club President who is having their lunch money taken from them by the Starting QB and his Head Cheerleader girlfriend. What goes around comes around, eventually the Chess Club President grows up and starts a software company that makes him a multi-billionaire and marries a blond, Russian supermodel. The Starting QB? Well he goes onto a short career at a Division II school, doesn’t even get to play in Canada upon graduating, and goes from job to job in the exciting field of Waste Disposal Management. The Head Cheerleader? She becomes a motivational speaker, but she serves time in Federal Prison for Tax Evasion.

Like I said – what goes around comes around, eventually the bad bosses will be exposed and demoted, if not fired. The bad customers will go too far someday and they will be advised to take their business elsewhere, and if they don’t leave they will have to be taken away in handcuffs. Honestly, I get the joke that thechive was playing on us and I can laugh about it. But what is happening right now to the employees and the job seekers of America right now is not funny. All of us are beyond frustrated right now and we are becoming very, very angry. I would not be surprised to find that pitchforks are being gathered and torches are being lit. The potential for an employment revolution is very real because we peasants are getting tired of being told to “eat cake”.

The revolution will not be televised, the revolution will be blogged about, and tweeted about, and written up on Facebook…

…and that, ladies and gentlemen, is no joke.

Until next time…

Girl quits job on dry erase board?!?!?

August 10th, 2010 0 Comments

America...Jenny, Jenny...America.

Now this is a new one that I had not seen before, and might start seeing more of assuming American employers keep behaving like asses…

So I’m on the ‘net this morning having a little look-see when I come across this item on LukeFord.com. Apparently a young woman named Jenny quit her job recently in a very unique way. She took photos of herself and e-mailed them to her entire office, which by some reports has about 20 employees. The following are the photos that Jenny sent to her former office mates, who I imagine are lighting the torches and gathering the pitchforks even as I write this:

Apparently this was originally posted over at thechive and she has gotten 424 comments at last count – most of them supportive and positive. I have to say that she is a genius for doing this and it shows just how fed up America’s employees really are becoming with their bad bosses. I know that those of you who still have jobs are fortunate to have them given this economy, but that still does not give your bosses license to do whatever the fuck they want to you, screwing over your lives in the process.

Now if you are reading this Jenny let me just say first of all – welcome. Second, I think that you should get yourself a lawyer because it sounds to me like you might have yourself a sexual harassment case against Spencer. Not sure myself, but you might want to talk to a lawyer just in case – and while you’re at it, ask if he’s hiring or knows someone who is. Third, you might want to think about getting yourself a publicist because I have a feeling that you are going to be very, very, VERY famous a lot sooner than you think. Fourth, don’t worry about not having a job right now – I have a feeling that you are not going to be unemployed for long because once people know you, you are going to be getting some job offers…

…and some of them might be from places you might not have thought of.

Don’t get me wrong, you are going to be getting offers from some legitimate businesses out there, possibly for better jobs than you had before. But you need to prepare yourself for the offers from Playboy, Penthouse, Hustler and the like. Not to mention offers from companies like Wicked Pictures, Zero Tolerance and Brazzers.com. I know, I know in some circles it is sad that young women these days who get notoriety get these kind of offers from these companies, but it does happen Jenny, and if it does – don’t be too shocked or offended or embarrassed. Hey, if they are coming after you for something then it must mean that you are doing something right…

Now there is some speculation that this was all a hoax and that this never really happened. Whel it doesn’t matter if this is real or not, if anything it is another indication of just how fed up the American employee is becoming with the people who write their paychecks. This is another example of how bad the attitudes of American employers has become. They have so much power now due to the fact that the economy is bad and people are scared for their jobs that some of these bosses have decided to abuse that power. I’ve got some news for those bosses: what goes around comes around. If you keep treating your employees like shit, then shit is going to come back to you ten-fold. If your bosses figure out that employee morale is down and productivity is down right along with it, they may decide that your employees are not the problem but that you are the problem! If that’s the case, then expect to have security taze your ass before they toss you down the stairs.

We’ve all worked for good bosses in our employment lives, we’ve also worked for some bad bosses – I am no exception. There was Heather, the Assistant Manager at the Pet Supply store I used to work for. There would be days when I was scheduled to open the store by myself and would have no help until noon. On some of these days I had to unload supply pallets all by myself when they were delivered three hours before we opened. Sometimes I had to fend off people who wanted to come in and buy stuff early before the store was open, which earned me a few cuss words and threats of job loss on a few occasions. But that didn’t matter to Heather who would demand to know why I was not able to get everything in the store and stocked before her arrival at noon. Even though I had been ringing up customers, making change, answering phone calls, answering questions about products, all the while trying to get the merchandise in all by myself it didn’t matter to Heather.

But then again, this was the same brat who would come in at noon on these days and go into the back room – and talk on the phone for two hours with her mother!!!! Her mother, Claire was a manager of a different store and she wanted her daughter to check in with her every day. (controlling much?) Then after Heather got off the phone she would come out and take the daily deposit into the bank, which took another 30 minutes. When Heather got back she would ask if I had taken a break, when I told her no she would then proceed to lecture me that I had to take my break no matter what the circumstances were, and that she would have to have me go home a half-hour early as a result. She didn’t care that I was by myself during that time, or that she had “other things to do” – she was going to bust my balls no matter what, and she made life miserable for a lot of people there.

Heather got some comeuppance in the end though, as she was transferred to another store, and from what I heard put on probation. See Heather was not only pissing off the employees of the store, she was offending customers who didn’t like her attitude as well. She had a lot of complaints filed against her to the corporate office by our customers, plus she was spending money without asking permission first. We all thought that she was trying to take over the store from our manager, Jackie – however she didn’t succeed and she got smacked for it.

Now that is not to say that every Heather is a bad boss, but some bad bosses are like Heather. They feel that they can do and say anything they want and because of their position they can get away with it. They feel that they have the right to push other people around and that nothing will happen to them because of where they are. Well I’ve got news for them…in a recession like this you cannot afford to piss off too many people – especially your customers. If your customers get pissed off then they can take their business elsewhere, and they can tell all of their friends not to do business with you. There’s an old saying: if you get good service you’ll tell a friend…if you get bad service you’ll tell ten friends.

Jenny, good for you for standing up and exposing Spencer for what he is and good luck securing yourself a new job. I am sure you will not be unemployed for long.

However, if you are interviewed by a woman with black, wavy hair who talks to you as if you are in Kindergarten and her name happens to be Heather, you might want to have a clear path to the door because you will want to run…

Until next time.